How can a medical intuitive help me to have a good relationship?
Written by Faye Baxter, medical intuitive from Medical Intuitive Solutions. www.fayebaxter.com
A professional medical intuitive will work with you to identify why you can not find a rewarding and loving relationship. An experienced medical intuitive may also be able to create an awareness of how to bring the spark and love back into the relationship you have.
Many factors impact ability to have a great relationship but surprisingly, the ability to create one sits with you. We all want a fairytale relationship. In reality, a good relationship takes work and focus. It is about giving and taking and having clarity of what you do and do not want. Working with a professional medical intuitive will help you identify and understand why you keep repeating destructive or damaging patterns and assist you in making better choices going forward.
Some of the following reasons people give about problems in their existing relationship or not being able to find the right partner may sound familiar to you:
I want to have children and I just cannot find a partner who wants the same.
It is likely that if you continue to repeat this pattern, your desire around children is sitting in your brain and not connected at a heart level. We create our reality from the heart, not from the head and especially regarding having children. Perhaps you may have a lot of fear around being a parent, that you lack the confidence that you will be a good parent. It might also be that your family had a breakup when you were a child and you took over the mothering/fathering role and at some deeper level, you hold a resentment around this.
I keep attracting partners who are either sexually, physically, or emotionally abusive.
Often adults who have experienced domestic violence of any sort will attract the same patterns in their own relationships. While physical and sexual violence is a common form of abuse, far more often we see the more insidious emotional violence. There are no bruises on the physical body, but it is every bit as harmful if not more so. It can take the form of undermining confidence, withholding of finances, isolation from family or friends, unreal expectations, or a myriad of other destructive behaviours.
These relationships are often hard to escape, given the level of fear created, the controlling behaviours and the destructive impact on self-confidence, still without a lot of work from both parties, it will not change. Sadly, abusers usually struggle with taking responsibility for their actions and will strongly resist their victim trying to make changes. In reality, the abuser is also a victim. They are simply playing out their past believing it is necessary to have a relationship which validates their past, and fulfils the absence of self-confidence in their ability to have a relationship without these controlling behaviours.
A professional medical intuitive will help you identify these behaviours and will work with you to rebuild self-confidence, and implement change in your life regardless of whether you are the abuser or the abused. In the case of the abused, sometimes the mere act of setting your boundaries and standing up for yourself can turn an unhealthy relationship into a good one. For the abuser, being made aware of these behaviours can be very enlightening and have life changing results.
Remember, abusive relationships are never good relationships for either party.
I keep attracting people who do not want a committed relationship.
With the sixties and the new freedoms which came into play, sexual promiscuity took off with a vengeance. The pill became more freely available and that meant that the fear of pregnancy became less of a problem. While there have always been people who played the field, this became more common and the knowledge that you could have all the benefits without the responsibility came into play.
In the seventies, we saw massive change in our society. Women were awarded “equal pay” and saw an almost overnight doubling of income. In Australia, we also saw the introduction of the single parent pension which meant that women had more choices about how they functioned in relationships and men had the same. It was a time of uncertainty, particularly for men. They had been the bread winners and knew their role but overnight everything changed. Women who had been stuck in bad relationships had a choice and in many cases men felt superfluous.
While this is all history, it was essentially the beginning of commitment free relationships and the fact that sexually transmitted diseases are flourishing in the baby boomer population adds weight to this theory. It was around this time that we saw a greater freedom in the availability of pornography. This was followed by the advent of the internet where at the keyboard, you could view anything from soft core porn to the most sexually explicit behaviours or arrange a date with several different partners at a time. It created an expectation around the sexual aspects of a relationship and commitment which created the impression that having just one partner was boring. For some it set a new paradigm on relationship moving it from marriage, home, and family to one of perceived freedom. We moved to a place where many were looking for love in all the wrong places.
So how could a medical intuitive enable me to have a good relationship?
You might ask how a professional medical intuitive can help you with the issue of commitment in relationship or a relationship which is not working. An experienced medical intuitive will help you to identify the patterns you are living, the reasons why you cannot have what you want and what your true beliefs around relationships and commitment . Your parents relationship and their relationship with you will be a significant contributing factor and will help you to understand your own beliefs around relationships.
Summary
Whether you are in a relationship which is not serving you or would like a committed relationship, working with a professional medical intuitive will help you to make the necessary adjustments to achieve what you truly desire.
Sometimes the grass on the other side of the fence may look greener but if you water the grass on your own side of the fence, it will likely be green as well.
Faye Baxter
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